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Divorcing the Love Conditioning In Morph City
by Soren Dreier
The Matrix conditioning would expect you to feel pain, devastation and even victimized if your relationship is about to crack. Add a few teaspoons of hate to that condition, combined with a touch of jealousy and a sweet sweet sprinkle of vengeance. That would kind of be what we are programmed to feel right, if our partner wants to disengage.
If it’s you that wants to disengage, you are supposed to feel guilty by default, and that will often leave you in a zombified state, where you cannot act, because you feel sorry for your partner. Ah, you’re so good a lover that you feel your partner’s pain. Really? Could it be the acquired helplessness kicking in?
So the matrix condition is pretty much: Feel victimized or victimize your partner.
Since the love zapper in the higher altitudes is very much turned on and pointing to the heart people, they are morphing into what I label a “Rumi State Of Mind”.
That Rumi State Of Mind is a field that we can tap into. But there’s a: but. Only if you have felt it, and not taking Rumi in as just pretty poetry.
That really goes for most esoteric knowledge, going parrot mode, and repeating something we don’t understand in depth. We have to embed the esoteric.
I go a little Deepak Chopra, since I´m addressing Rumi.
Love is quantum mechanics. It´s a vibrant field and I could suppose Deepak would go: “ Yes love is very interesting, two quantum fields merging in ecstatic passion”. Deepak´ian for relationships.
Rumi really holds the key to the quantum field of romantic love morphing its way to the inhabitants of Morph City.
When we Morph out of the “Victimizing-double-bind “ hostage situation, we will actually realize that the only principle in the new coordinates will be the quantum leap which will trigger the duality of “The matrix of giving and receiving”.
Duality has to be united, before anything makes sense during this collective shift, because the shift is transcending boundaries at all levels. The quantum field uniting the giver and the receiver will slowly evaporate into: Giving. Yes, the key to The Shift. Cool.
It triggers pure unconditioned giving. And if you use that and you or your partner has a hard time dealing with it, it makes sense. Because receiving seems to be so difficult when morphing into that quantum field.
I mentioned the Givers and the Takers in The Heart People. The Givers are strangers to receiving, but still supporting the equation: “What you send out in this world, you will attract”. Or: “Where attention goes energy flows”. It becomes a spiritual contradiction.
So if you are a giver and wonder: Why the hell isn’t the universe providing? Well, open your heart, “I´m” coming home! If you’re a giver and cannot cope with receiving, you are only standing on one leg. So easily knocked over.
In a “Rumi State of Mind” you want to give and you will attract what has been seeking you. But never from a non receiving position! You will have to work on that.
If you open up to it, you can’t dodge it, it’s way too strong. You can dive in or take the exit. But it will hit you and the impact will go through eons of time, since it came from the source code within you.
If you’re in this kind of relationship morphing into love all-inclusive and your lover wants to bail out, you grant that. Because you are your lover. If you love your partner at that level, you got to love your partners decisions too, even though you may not like them, since lover and loved one has: emerged.
Don’t go the low vibrational victimizing state and take your partner hostage. That obviously is not love. In the matrix it is, with its love deception software, as mentioned.
The matrix considers love to be a feeling, it is not at this level – it’s a skill that only wants to give. Well knowing that even the matrix of giving and receiving has been illuminated, you will still give your partner that freedom of choice, knowing that if you in anyway limit your partner from expressing the life force within, for whatever reasons, mundane or spiritual – you would only limit yourself.
And the Matrix hand rubbing therapist auto response pilot goes: “OH, what about the children?” Eagerly looking for victimization, since it’s the only thing that it understands. There’s got to be some bloody casualties or collateral damage!!
No there’s not- the kids are good, you’re good and your love is good, and it was magnetized so maybe your partner will rebound.
You gave your love, didn’t you. How by any means, could that be painful? Wasn’t it a joy?
Attach, detach or reattach. It’s all experiences, not to be taken lightly. They are some of the most transforming gifts we will ever receive. Do it with a wet heart.
“Be the water, not the container.”
See also: Transcending the Love Conditioning in Morph City
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“You gave your love, didn’t you. How by any means, could that be painful?”
I haven’t the words to express the pain of love. Ah, you will then say it is not love. No arguing with one who has not the same life experience.
I did, nevertheless, resonate with most of your article. Thanks for your contribution.
Aside from my one objection, it was a very though-provoking read.
Steve, I believe true love can hurt. I have experienced it. It was an important part of my journey I guess but so painful it almost killed me.
Instead, I found forgiveness but it took a long time.
Twelve,
My question is – You have found forgiveness- Upon reaching this level did you release it and completely let it go? If it does come up again in your memories do smile upon the memory as just an experience with no emotional attachments?
Just curious – I believe we all have some dark chapters in our life that we did not think we could escape, but we did, didn’t we? I’ve had a few – My first true love experience was messy, but the lessons I have learned help me when I help others through similar experiences.
J,
I have let it go and I can now see it as the lesson it was meant to be but that took some time.
My husband had an affair many years ago and I wanted to die. I almost took my own life but God intervened and awoke my daughter (then 3) to come to me and remind me that I was needed. I found out a week later that I was pregnant with our fourth child so it wasnt just me she saved that day.
It took a long time to even believe in love again let alone be willing to risk my heart in the game but we slowly made our way back to our path and I honestly wouldnt change it if i could.
There’s lyrics that always fit how i feel about the affair now:
“Now nothing can take you away from me
we’ve been down that road before
but that’s over now and our love will light the way.”
Sometimes you have to see how ugly it can be to appreciate how beautiful it is. Sometimes you have to lose it all to see what really matters.
Now of course, if you ask him he would take it away in a heartbeat. He has a hard time living with what has happened but I know it has made me who I am today.
I know that it has played a huge role in the amount of confidance I have in myself to handle anything that gets thrown at me.
I wouldnt say I smile when I think of it, but I do think of it as a small scene in my life. It was a negative thing i turned into a positive thing.
What an experience, Twelve. I did not expect a detailed account of your past, but I am sure someone will read this and use it to get through their own similar-difficulties. Bless Us ALL.
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In the spirit of the ancient traditions the film is being offered freely for the benefit of all beings:
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David
W6DLB
Perhaps the two in search of each other can find their appropriate equation in a more accurate fashion without the distant and perhaps disinterested observation of scientists. Perhaps emotional flexibility and compromise occur constantly on a stream, and not people with set-in-stone positions. The interpretation by the observer or author in this case is not accurate by any means and serves no good purpose. In a world of those who claim to “fight the system” in the “alternative media,” there are plenty of order-givers and authoritarians here as well.
You can’t have a thousand people watching two and sticking their fingers in the mix like a plague of mimes or those who, as has been criticized of some, seek “instant gratification,” their gratification being the meddling and messing with something that, if we were truly desirous of being “free people,” the person who penned this article would be either out of a job or in prison for inflicting and aggravating grievous emotional and psychological damage and placing the blame on the more innocent party.
If you want to love, love what you eat, love who you meet, love who you work with and everyone you come in contact with, when you have true compassion for yourself and all the worlds creatures you will bring peace to our planet and what you give yourself is peace of mind.
Connect to your heart read this great blog:
http://www.spiritofchange.org/mind-spirit/veganism-in-a-nutshell